May 9, 2017

How to Choke Her, Squeeze Her & Please Her (3 Sex Essentials)

Women are tired of having the same ol' vanilla sex that so many guys have to offer.

A quick round of missionary. No noise other than the slaps of skin-on-skin action.

Boom, done.

Nah. Where's the danger? Where are the sounds of carnal pleasure? And where's the raw sexuality that women crave?

That's why I have three awesome tips to spice up your sex life and raise your sex game baseline from 'vanilla' to 'fuck me more please'.

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Choke the Bitch

You may have heard the saying:

"Everything in life is about sex. Except sex.

Sex is about power."

Choking her is an act of dominance. Just as the entire act of sex is based on dominance. And those who are dominant have power.

She wants to be choked because she wants you to dominate her. And she likes to be submissive to a dominant man.

So when you have your hand on her neck, she feels you have absolute control. That's the kind of thing that makes her vagina tingle and more prone to stimulation.

But for some men, having your hand on her throat may be too much.

I assume these men aren't used to being dominant.

I used to be like that. And I'm gonna tell you how I got over it:

From now on, assume that when you have sex - if you don't choke her, she won't finish.

(This isn't necessarily true. But it will help men out there who are hesitant to choke their girl.)

So every time you’ve asked her if she finished and she said yes. If you didn’t choke her, she lied to you.

So you better choke her during sex or else she isn’t gonna finish.

This is how you choke her:

Remember how your parents would squeeze your face cheeks when you were a kid?

Their thumb would go on one cheek and their fingers would go on the other cheek. Then they’d squeeze your face.

You’re gonna do the exact same thing.

Except you’re gonna do it to her throat.

You will lay your thumb on one side of her neck and fingers on the other. Crossing the two prominent veins. Then squeeze with your thumb and fingers.

**Don't push down with the webbed part of your hands. You can cause some serious damage.

You’ll eventually learn what she likes and what you’re comfortable with.

But I guarantee you that just about every girl likes to be choked. So don't be afraid to test your limits.

Talk Dirty & Make Some Noise

She loves it when you make noise.

It almost gets her off even more than being choked. So call her your slut.

If you’re not comfortable with doing that, it's okay.

But put it this way: girls are not angels. They think nasty, sexy thoughts just like us.

As men, we can talk freely about the sick and sexy things we'd do to a chick and it's considered normal.

Women on the other hand, won't express themselves as freely or openly as men. 

That being said, they do like all of that nasty talk.

Because it makes them feel like sexual beings – which they are.

By talking dirty to them you are validating their sexuality. And that validation helps with their spirituality.

Warning: when you start talking dirty, sex doesn't go back to normal.

Talking dirty becomes that new higher standard that makes sex better all the time.

I’ve had girls finish, squirt, and drip on me by talking dirty to them and by choking them during sex.

Note: Make noise when you finish. She likes to confirmation of receiving your cummies.

Bring Sex Toys in the Room

My only real recommendation to get you started would be handcuffs.

Handcuffs are your basic staple and gateway toy.

With handcuffs on, she’s ‘defenseless’. And I personally really like this kind of play because it leaves her completely vulnerable.

In fact, my #1 favorite thing to use in the bedroom is bed restraints. I love having her trapped and strapped by her wrists and ankles. Especially blindfolded.

It's an absolute certainty that all of this is for me. So I freely dig right in.

She’ll probably finish too since it’s that much more stimulating.

But if she doesn’t it’s okay because she’s handcuffed or restrained.

She knows that none of it is for her, all of it is for you.

Now Your Sex Game Is Officially Better Than Most (50%)

The Tips to Having Better Than Average Sex are simple:

  1. Choke her
  2. Talk Dirty & Make Noise
  3. Bring Toys in the Bedroom

You're no longer a boring guy to sleep with and having sex with you is a lot more fun.

Now it's time to get your dick wet

And Remember:

Choke The Bitch



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8 comments on “How to Choke Her, Squeeze Her & Please Her (3 Sex Essentials)”

  1. I like this post. I totally agree with the choking part - all but "A girl will only finish if you choke her", this simply doesn't stand up.

    Once sex toys are brought into the equation, there's no going back, and you'll always be looking for the next addition to spice things up, this isn't always a good thing.

    "Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."

    It's good to mix it up but be able to still have great sex without all the things.

    Also, if you haven't read "Slow Sex: the art and craft of the female orgasm", you should. Follow this guidance and it will put you in the top 0.1% of men in bed.

    1. I'm not claiming that a woman only orgasms if she's being choked. Heavens no. That's advice for guys who are reluctant to choke her in the first place.

      That's a great quote! Thanks for the recommendation Ash (linked for readers who are interested).

  2. I didn't see this mentioned; talk about it before grabbing her neck. Some women have had some unsavory history and choking her without having talked about it at some point could trigger a really bad response. Women don't share their histories with all men. He'd have no way of knowing. Probably best to put feelers out there first or he may get knocked up side the head or find his woman off in another world.

  3. What is wrong with people. This is not normal and it’s shocking people think this is “Hot” during sex. Goodness gracious

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